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Six sessions.
Real work.
Real change.
No affirmations.
No vision boards.
This is not about
positive thinking.
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The work.

What coaching actually looks like

This is not about positive thinking.

One-to-one coaching with me is a structured, honest working relationship. We start by understanding the patterns — the specific dynamics that have been keeping you quiet, the conditioning that arrived before you knew it was conditioning, the ways your nervous system learned to respond to environments that asked too much of it.

We don't stay there. The understanding is the foundation, not the destination. Once you can see the patterns clearly, we work out what to do differently — practically, specifically, in the actual shape of your life. Not in theory.

Six sessions is enough to move something. It is not enough to solve everything. Most women find that by session six they have a clearer sense of what they want, a stronger ability to hold their own position under pressure, and considerably less guilt about existing. That's a good return.

Who this is for

Women who know something needs to change and are ready to do something about it. Women who have tried talking to friends, reading the books, watching the videos — and who need someone to work through it with them directly.

Who this is not for

Women who need clinical therapeutic support — I will always be honest about that distinction and direct you to appropriate help. Women who are looking for someone to tell them what to do. Women who are not yet ready to have their current story looked at directly.

What you need to bring

Honesty. Willingness to look at things directly. The capacity to show up for six sessions. That's it. You don't need to have it figured out. If you had it figured out, you wouldn't need me.

What to expect

Six sessions. Here's what happens in them.

01–02

Understanding the terrain

We map what's been happening. The patterns, the dynamics, the conditioning. Where the rules came from. What they've cost you. Not to dwell — to see clearly. You can't change what you can't name.

03–04

The practical work

What to do differently. Specifically, in the real shape of your life — not in theory. How to hold your position when challenged. What it actually looks like to say no without eight paragraphs of justification. The small and not-small things that add up.

05–06

Building what comes next

Where you want to go from here. Not a plan with a capital P — a direction. An understanding of what you're moving toward, what you're done with, and what tools you're taking with you when we're done.

The details.

What's included

Every session, the same care.

Sessions
60-minute sessions via Zoom
Frequency
Fortnightly — one session every two weeks
Between sessions
Email support and session notes throughout
Resources
Relevant workbooks and frameworks throughout

Before we start

"I only work with people I believe I can genuinely help. The discovery call is not a pitch — it is a genuine conversation to make sure this is the right thing for you right now. If it isn't, I'll say so."

Sarah Howard

Two ways in

Single session, or the six.

Single Session

One session

One 60-minute session for a specific knot — a decision, a dynamic, a conversation you can't work out how to have. For when you want to think something through with someone, not commit to a programme.

£— per session
Rate confirmed on your free discovery call.
Best value

Six-session package

The full arc — understanding, practical change, and building what comes next — at a reduced per-session rate. Fortnightly, with email support throughout. This is where the real movement happens.

£— for six · discounted
Rate confirmed on your free discovery call.

Payment plans available. Everyone starts with the same free discovery call — we talk about fit first, then the right option for you.

Discovery Call · Free

Start here.
Every path begins with a conversation.

Whether you're thinking about a single session or the full six, we start the same way: a free discovery call. No pitch, no pressure — just a genuine conversation to see whether I'm the right person to work with you. If I'm not, I'll tell you. Pick a time below.

Free Clarity Session

Not sure yet?
Start with one thing.

Thirty minutes, one to one, on one thing that's been sitting heavy. Free, no commitment, and open for booking right now — a gentler way in if a discovery call feels like a step too far today.

The campfire.

Sacred Whispers · Group Workshops

You don't have to do this alone.

Small, carefully held group workshops for women working through similar things. Not a support group — a structured learning space, built around understanding nervous system responses, identity, survival strategies, and self-trust. Co-regulation, shared recognition, and the quieter knowing that you're not the only one.

FormatSmall group — 6–8 women maximum
Duration4 sessions, 90 minutes each
DeliveryOnline via Zoom — no travel required
PriceAnnounced with each cohort

Join the Waiting List

Be first to know when the next cohort opens.

Places are small and fill quickly. Add your name and I'll let you know as soon as the next group is announced — with the topic and dates.

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Stay in the room anyway.

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